基督徒葬礼的问题
基督徒葬礼的问题
基督教殡葬礼仪的入殓、告别（安息）礼拜整个过程约需一小时三十分钟左右，牧师通常会与家属商量整个礼拜过程进行的方式。告别（安息）礼拜内容有敬拜、感恩、追思、安慰、布道等项。在安排日期方面，十至十四天左右以内为最佳，通常在安息后七天左右举行家庭追思礼拜，不需要择日，只选择大家比较方便来参加的日子即可，因为基督徒相信每天都是上帝所赐的好日子。在礼堂布置与用品方面，以实际需要、实用为原则，节省不铺张，不用祭品，不排罐头山，不挂挽联，以素雅白色花材为主。周年追思礼拜，则用教会式或家庭式，内容包括追思、安慰、赞美主。墓园方面，多数都安葬於纯基督徒墓园，每年省墓方便，而且因信仰相同，也就不需要看风水选方位、不上香、不烧纸钱、免祭品，全部都以鲜花来追思，整个仪式比较整洁、美观、庄严。若采土葬，则仪式分为：入殓、告别（安息）礼拜、安葬三阶段。告别（安息）礼拜可以在丧宅办理或移教会办理均可。若是逝於医院，则在太平间入殓，再移教堂告别（安息）礼拜、安葬。火葬则多一道「火化」过程，仪式分为：入殓、告别（安息）礼拜、火化、安葬四阶段。也可以先火化再到教会告别（安息）礼拜。基督教徙认为父母死后，即上天堂，上天堂是可喜的事，万不可哭泣哀痛。对灵柩灵位，不得行礼跪拜；如有非基督徒的亲友向灵柩灵位鞠躬行礼，也不禁止，但孝子只在灵柩旁侍立，不得向来宾答礼。上述仪程，至少有一部分耶稣教徒，是严格遵行的。这是中西礼节不同之点。现将亲丧追思礼拜程序单，照录如下：追思礼拜程序单与基督同在好得无比（腓立比书一章二十三节）一、序乐..乐队二、唱诗（我家在天）..会众颂三、祈祷..×××四、献诗（这世界非我家）..唱诗班五、传略..遗属代表六、献诗（复活在我少年诗班七、读经（帖前四章十三至十七节）..×××八、献诗（真神之爱）..×××九、证道..×××十、献诗（日落之那边）..唱诗班十一、宣读吊电..治丧委员会十二、治丧会代表遗属致谢..治丧委员会十三、唱诗（再相会）..会众颂十四、来宾起立致哀（哀乐）..来宾十五、祝祷..×××十六、殿乐（出殡）..乐队葬礼献诗..唱诗班祈祷..×××唱诗（再相会）..会众颂经文论到睡了的人，我们不愿意弟兄们不知道，恐怕你们优伤，像那些没有指望的人一样。我们若信耶稣死而复活了，那已经在耶稣里睡了的人，神也必将他与耶稣一同带来。我们现在照主的话告诉你们一件事，我们这活着还存留到主降临的人，断不能在那已经睡了的人之先，因为主必亲自从天降临，有呼叫的声音，和天使长的声音，又有神的号吹响，那在基督里死了的人必先复活。以后我们这活着还存留的人，必和他们一同被提到云里，在空中与主相遇，这样，我们就要和主永远同在。~~~~~~~~~如果你太祖婆家没有教堂，她在哪里做礼拜呢？有没有交好的教友或神父，她们可以帮你解决那些问题的。
谁知道这首歌叫什么..还有这首歌的完全版..。
Di Johnston《You"re Too Pretty》
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歌词
All it really took was a look from across the room
I caught your eye and I knew I was doomed
To fall deeply for the idea of you and me
Together could I ever make this dream come true?
Imagine my sweet surprise
When you said you felt likewise
And I thought “You’re so pretty”
But too pretty for someone like me
I just want this feeling to go away
You’re too pretty for a girl like me
If they ask I would sing all your praises
Tell them all about your charms and grace
And how you’d always say that you’d take me so many places
Will they only see a perfect face?
Now I’m spending all my time on your outside
But with every pretty face there’s only downside
And I thought “You’re so pretty”
But too pretty for someone like me
I just want this feeling to go away
You’re too pretty for a girl like me
I suppose that I was hoping to prove them all wrong
That I can get past your surface
To the innermost secrets
But I keep getting stuck because
You’re so pretty
And I thought “You’re so pretty”
But too pretty for someone like me
I just want this feeling to go away
You’re too pretty for a girl like me
And I thought “You’re so pretty”
But too pretty for someone like me
I just want this feeling to go away
You’re too pretty for a girl like me
All it really took was a look from across the room I caught your eye
To fall deeply for the idea of you and me together